Aug. 12, 2025

Daughters in Danger: Navigating Online Manipulation

Daughters in Danger: Navigating Online Manipulation
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Daughters in Danger: Navigating Online Manipulation

Text For Some Good Game From Likes to Lies: When IG Fantasy Turns Daughters Against Their Parents This week on Let Me Pull Your Coat: The Unfiltered World of Master Silk, Silk and China Doll go deep into one of the most painful realities parents face today — daughters walking away from school, home, and family because of the glamorous lies they see online… and the manipulative men whispering in their ears. From false abuse reports to relatives being turned against you, this unfiltered convers...

Text For Some Good Game

From Likes to Lies: When IG Fantasy Turns Daughters Against Their Parents

This week on Let Me Pull Your Coat: The Unfiltered World of Master Silk, Silk and China Doll go deep into one of the most painful realities parents face today — daughters walking away from school, home, and family because of the glamorous lies they see online… and the manipulative men whispering in their ears.

From false abuse reports to relatives being turned against you, this unfiltered conversation unpacks:

  • Why IG “soft life” dreams crash hard in real life.
  • How predators groom girls to betray their own parents.
  • Legal and emotional steps when your child lies to police.
  • Protecting your name, your home, and your legacy.
  • When and how to leave a door open for their return.

Silk draws on decades of real-world experience from the streets to the boardroom, and China pulls no punches with the lessons she learned the hard way. If you’re a parent in the crosshairs of lies, manipulation, and social-media fantasy — this is your blueprint.

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00:00 - OPENING

00:54 - Soft Life, Hard Crash

02:49 - When He Coaches Her to Call You Abusive

04:45 - Blocked by Your Own Blood

06:09 - Stepdad Under Fire

07:25 - Sister vs. Pimp

08:47 - Silk's Family Fun Day Sundays

09:55 - Single Dad, CPS, and the Lie

10:47 - Brother Watching Her Disappear

12:07 - Grandma Holding the Line

13:03 - Yes, It’s Mostly Girls — But Not Only

14:07 - Merch, Shoutouts, and Second CTA

14:52 - Coat Pull of the Week

15:32 - Closing

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Welcome back to Let Me Pull your Coat the unfiltered world of Master Silk.

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Tonight we are going straight at a hard truth Girls dropping out, chasing IG glamour, cutting off the very parents who fed them, often coached by manipulative men online.

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If you're dealing with false police reports, gaslighting and a daughter who suddenly calls you toxic, you are not alone and you are not crazy.

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Parents, we're going to give you game steps and structure, not memes.

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Tap, follow or subscribe wherever you listen, hit lemmepolyourcoatcom, check the your Post page and the blog page for the latest blogs, hit the Reviews page to rate the show and visit the Video page for clips.

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And yes, the merch page is open.

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Victor from Vallejo, california, writes my 17-year-old wants to drop out and be an influencer, says school is useless.

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How do I stop this crash?

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First, do not negotiate with delusion.

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Ig shows the edited highlight reel, not the cost of the camera, rent or the quiet nights crying when views dip.

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Sit her down and do a real budget on paper List things like rent.

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Do a real budget on paper list things like rent, food, internet gear, taxes, healthcare.

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Then compare to an entry-level salary from a trade, certification or degree.

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Numbers cut through nonsense like a hot blade.

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When I left the streets for the boardrooms, math, not pride, kept me honest.

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Next, tie privileges to progress.

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No car keys without credits, no Wi-Fi without coursework.

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She wants a brand Fine Pilot, a creator semester.

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She must post three value-based videos weekly, teaching videos, not thirst traps.

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Track analytics and keep a 3.0 or the plug gets pulled.

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Consequences are not abuse, they are boundaries.

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I know the soft life lie.

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I was groomed and glamorized before I understood the invoice.

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What saved me was a mentor who made me prove results.

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If she truly wants that lane, teach her about boring excellence, things like scripts, content, calendars, editing, and one income that isn't her body, like so many girls think is worth a fortune.

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Give her 90 days to show professionalism.

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If not, she returns to school, trade or training.

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Love her enough to say baby fantasy doesn't pay the rent.

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Skills do.

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Bafara from Montreal, canada, asks my daughter's 18.

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A man, alman, is telling her to file a false report against us so she can move in with him.

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We're terrified.

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What do we do?

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Predators isolate.

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They start with your parents are too controlling.

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Then they're very abusive.

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Then come to me, I'll protect you.

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It is textbook grooming.

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You need to document everything.

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Take screenshots, timestamps, dm, the encouragement he gives to lie.

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If it escalates, consult a local attorney and ask how to protect yourselves legally, while keeping contact attempts calm and written.

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Do not scream or threaten Abuses.

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Feast on loud parents Emotionally.

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Write her a non-reactive letter, say we love you, we are here for you.

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But he will meet with a neutral third-party counselor pastor, mediator, anytime but he will meet with a neutral third-party, counselor, pastor, mediator, anytime.

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We will not attack you and we will not attack him.

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We just want the truth in the daylight.

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Predators hate daylight.

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Take it from a man who's seen both sides.

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I've seen clouds whisper poison.

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Do not take the bait.

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If she files a report, comply, stay calm, bring counsel.

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Ask for a recorded statement process.

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If the story changes, it changes on record.

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Meanwhile, quietly secure your house cameras.

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Lock down your financial accounts.

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If you don't have any protection in your home, get some.

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You never know who believes her lies and may want to come and defend her so-called honor.

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Also, keep your own timeline.

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If she walks out, keep one door open.

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Tell her.

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If you ever feel unsafe, call me, no questions asked.

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You fight the lie and hopefully don't lose the child.

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Alita from Krakow, poland, writes my niece bought my sister, spread lies and made relatives pick sides.

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How do we answer without feeding drama?

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You starve a fire by removing oxygen.

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Stop group chat warfare.

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Issue one family statement we love her.

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We will not respond to rumors.

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If anyone wants facts, we'll share them one-on-one.

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Then go quiet.

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Predators and narcissists need an audience.

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Remove the audience.

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Second, build a receipts folder or, as I call it, a paper trail.

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Keep dates, messages, school counselor notes.

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You do not use it to humiliate her.

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You use it to defend yourself with precision when police and institutions ask.

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Silence is a weapon when paired with evidence.

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You can also leave a breadcrumb trail back home for her.

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Send birthday texts, holiday invites, text things like your seat is saved at the table, that's if she hasn't blocked you from all access to her.

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When I was younger, shame kept me away longer than anger.

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The moment a safe bridge appeared for me, I crossed it as fast as wheels could turn.

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Love loud and private.

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Defend quiet in public.

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Jamal from Birmingham, uk, asks my stepdaughter is telling police I'm controlling and violent.

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None of it is true.

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I'm scared it will ruin my life.

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What should I do?

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First, protect your name.

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Get an attorney.

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If you've ever set house rules, put them in writing and have mom sign them.

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List curfew, chores, phone hours.

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It turns control into agreed-upon household standards.

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Use non-emotional language.

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Say something like we enforce routines for safety and academic success.

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Second, move the proof out of your phone.

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Back it up to two locations.

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Keep a log with dates.

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What was said, who witnessed it?

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If a welfare check happens, be the calmest man they've met that day.

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Calm beats chaos.

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Whatever you do, do not flex.

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No, I'll show her.

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The legal system doesn't care how tough you are, it cares about facts.

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I've seen many people lose their cases for ego and revenge.

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The legal system doesn't care how tough you are, it cares about facts.

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I've seen many people lose their cases for ego and revenge.

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The only thing that travels well is paperwork, not pride.

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Keep your hands clean, your voice low and your evidence ready.

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Priyanka from Edison, new Jersey, asks my 19-year-old sister has a pimp that takes her money.

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She worships him.

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How do we break the spell?

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You can't argue with worship.

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You must out-mentor it.

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Offer resources, not insults.

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Tell her we booked you a free meeting with a female business owner who scaled up legally.

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She keeps 100% of her money.

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Predators sell magic.

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You sell math plus mentorship.

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Show her a written contract template where she is the CEO and no boyfriend or pimp is on the payroll.

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Create a two-path choice.

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Path A is him no contract, no savings, no health care.

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Path B is incorporation, business bank account.

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And tell her you'll match her first $500 as she finishes a certification, something like makeup, nails coding, something real.

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If she's loyal to the game, give her options.

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If that doesn't work, you've basically lost her to the streets.

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If that doesn't work, you basically lost her to the streets, and she'll only realize her actions when prison hospitalization or disease has taken her body over.

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Manipulators hate options that come with receipts.

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I was that girl once.

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A brocket was meeting Master Silk.

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His girls had the life my pimp promised me.

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Silk set up women-only spaces, co-working days, entrepreneurship circles.

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Silk also gave us what he called Master Silk's Family Fun Day Sundays.

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Those were the days we spent as a family.

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Each girl had a different Sunday that we would do whatever they wanted to do.

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Some girls would pick going out to dinner, shopping or going to the movies.

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Me, I always picked just staying home together, watching movies or doing yard work or simply playing cards and having a fish fry or barbecue.

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I enjoyed the bonds we all shared as a family and still do.

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We never discussed work on Sunday.

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You see, predators like to isolate their girls, but Silk knew that sisterhood reintegrates.

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My advice to you is if your sister falls, don't say I told you so.

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Say the shower's hot, the food's on the stove, let's rebuild.

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Tsubisiso from Johannesburg, south Africa, writes my daughter, filed with child services, claiming we're emotionally abusive.

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We are structured, not cruel.

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What now?

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You handle feelings and file separately With her.

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We hear you.

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You need to sit with a counselor to name what feels abusive versus what is a boundary With the system papers, timelines, school records, therapist notes.

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Ask your counselor to document that house rules were explained and appropriate.

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Also, reduce triggers that get mislabeled as abuse, things like yelling door, slamming, profanity Keep your voice calm.

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If she is 16 plus, offer weekly neutral space check-ins with a third party.

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A state respects families who construct repair plans.

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Mateo from San Juan, puerto Rico, asks my little sister met a guy online and vanished to the mainland.

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I am angry enough to do something stupid.

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I've buried men who acted on stupid.

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Do not Use strategy.

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File a missing person report, if warranted.

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Share photos, last known handles and his aliases.

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Check hotel apps, cash apps and ride receipts, if you have account access, and ride receipts if you have account access.

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Quietly pull in an advocate who understands trafficking.

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Red flags not to accuse but to prepare.

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Keep one lifeline message open.

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I'm not mad.

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Text me a one if you're okay.

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Two if you need help.

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Abusers often read phones.

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Keep it simple.

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If she returns, do not interrogate.

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Get her medical care, sleep and a non-judgmental shower.

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Then talk.

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I mentored girls who were recovered because one brother stayed calm.

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When she resurfaces, talk future, not failure.

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Ged programs, job training, tiny wins the first 72 hours back are fragile.

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Love has to be practical Rides, food documents, a phone with Find my On.

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Yvonne from Marseille, france, states my granddaughter calls us toxic because we won't fund her brand.

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How do I love her without funding foolishness?

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Love with standards.

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I will cheer for you.

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I will not fund anything that risks your safety or dignity.

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Offer approved lanes, community college, cosmetology, ux design, pharmacy tech, whatever fits.

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If she chooses the IG path, require proof of plan content, calendar budget, legal name on payments, no boyfriends on accounts.

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You model adult love, open arms, closed wallet.

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The first time I touched real money it came from structure.

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Grandma.

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Be the structure.

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Money without mentorship is gasoline E offer mentorship or say no.

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Either way, you sleep clean say no.

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Either way, you sleep clean.

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Carla from San Antonio, texas, writes my son's 16.

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A girl online is pushing him to call me, controlling and leave.

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Is this a girl problem or a kid problem?

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It's mostly girls in the IG glamour economy because the market objectifies them, but boys are prey too.

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They're gambling apps, hustle scams and radical circles that sell fake respect, same defense, boundaries, receipts, mentorship.

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I've guided young men out of messes where a queen was really a recruiter.

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The method never changes.

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Protect the kid, starve the predator, feed the truth, teach him language for manipulation, love, bombing, gaslighting, isolation.

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Boys who can name the trick.

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Don't fall for it as hard.

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Put him in male mentorship spaces.

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Barbershop talks coaches, mentorship spaces, barbershop talks coaches, uncles with integrity.

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Community is vaccination.

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Here is this week's shout outs Marisol in Tegucigalpa, deshawn in Fresno, rina in Hyderabad, kwame in Accra and Elodie in Brussels.

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Much love for the messages and shares.

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Love is not a ransom.

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Note.

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If your child makes you pay in silence, lies and humiliation just to be in their life, that is not love.

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That is leverage.

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Keep your door open and your spine straight Boundaries.

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Do not break Families' lies.

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Do when the smoke clears, the truth keeps receipts, predators.

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Isolate Parents.

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Illuminate, turn on every light.

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Budgets, contracts, mentorship, therapy and watch the rats scatter.

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If she stumbles home, meet her at the door with dignity and a plan.

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He's Master Silk and I'm Chinadol.

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Protect your house, protect your heart, protect your legacy.

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If they do not like that, tell them to pick up their hat, get their coat and agitate the gravel Until next week.

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Much love and much respect.