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The Episode That Had the Internet Holding Its Breath...

This week’s episode wasn’t cute.
It wasn’t soft.
And it damn sure wasn’t meant to protect feelings.
It was about truth—the kind most women avoid because it smells like accountability and tastes like growth.

Silk stepped back and told me, “Nah, this one’s all yours.”
Because some of y’all needed to hear it from a woman who’s been there, done the dirt, and climbed out the mud with her edges intact and her mind right.

Listen to the Podcast to find out how I answered all of the following questions that was left for us by voicemail, messages and emails.

When Feminine Energy Becomes a Weapon

Let’s be real:
Everybody wanna talk about toxic men.
But what about the women out here lying, cheating, gaslighting, manipulating, and still posting quotes about being a ‘Queen’?

Darian from Kuala Lumpur wrote in about his girl texting other dudes—
When he called her out, she flipped it and called him insecure.
Baby, I had to admit it…
I used to be that chick.

Tears, attitude, flipping the blame like a mattress in a cheap motel.

That wasn’t love. That was fear—of being alone, of being exposed.
And a whole lotta selfishness.

She Lied. She Stole. Then She Cried.

Kian from Toronto went into business with his ex.
She started stealing money from the joint account.
When he checked her? She broke down crying and said he was abusive.

Some women cry because they hurt.
But some? Cry because they got caught.
I’ve been both. I changed.
Now I teach other women how to pull their own coats before life does it for them.

False Accusations. Real Damage.

Manny from El Paso walked away from a cheating ex.
Now she’s out here saying he abused her.
That kind of lie?
It don’t just ruin your name—it rewrites your story without your permission.

Ladies, stop using trauma as a shield when you're the one swinging.

Entitlement Ain’t Royalty

Alton from Newark was with a woman who called herself a queen but didn’t want to do nothing but spend his money and look pretty.

I used to be her.
I thought my “vibe” and my looks were the value.
Until the lights got cut off and I had no answers.

Being a queen means matching his energy, building with him—not draining him.

Narcissists Will Turn You Into Them

Jasmine from Slidell, Louisiana told us how she started becoming the liar and manipulator just to keep up with her toxic girlfriend.

I’ve been there too.

Healing ain’t pretty.
It’s journaling.
It’s therapy.
It’s cutting folks off and learning to love peace more than attention.

Coat Pull of the Week

“Stop playing the victim in stories you wrote yourself.”

If that hits? It’s because you needed it.

If You're Ready for More Than Survival… Hit the Man That Changed My Life

I don’t say all this to drag nobody.
I say it to free you—because someone had to free me.

I was drowning in chaos.
And when I finally got tired of surviving, I called Silk.

He didn’t pimp me, shame me, or lie to me.
He built me.

Taught me how to make money work for me.
Taught me credit.
Taught me silence.
Taught me peace.

Now I got property, stocks, and a future.

You can too—but you gotta make the first move.

Ready? Then Pull Your Coat.

Click the mic. Leave your message.
Say, “Silk, I’m ready.”

And let that be the first day of your real life.

Leave Your Message at LetMePullYourCoat.com

Listen to the Full Episode Tuesday Aug. 5, 2025:

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